Anxious Attachment 101
5 Days to take the Open Heart from Clingy to Confident
Are you sick of walking on eggshells or chasing after an unattainable partner in your relationships?
This course is for Open Hearted individuals that struggle with anxiety in push-pull relationships, who are ready to start calling in a soul-shaking partnership, in only 5 days, without having to spend a ton of money on experts and gurus, or spend years in therapy with no tangible result.
"I have spent a lot of time chasing after emotionally unavailable partners, but after this course, I now see what power I have to shift the way I am showing up in love. Plus, the creative exercises are fun, and the lectures are easy to listen to. Highly recommend this course."
— Katie Melrose, 29
THE STRUGGLES OF
THE OPEN HEART...
Let me guess: You want a healthy, secure relationship...
You'd like to have an emotionally available partner, who passionately loves and respects you. Bonus points if your partner is a good listener, unthreatened by your needs, and knows how to express themselves honestly and openly in return!
BUT THERE'S A PROBLEM...
To experience emotional availability in your relationship, you need to understand how to communicate your own needs from an emotionally authentic place, without triggering your partners emotional defenses.
And typically, that means understanding both of your unique "love maps"-your way of giving and receiving love.
If you are an anxious, Open Heart, that means understanding which of the two types of anxious attachment you have, how to recognize and honor your emotional boundaries in love, and how to apply what strengths you have, in a way that serves you, rather than depletes you and gives your power away.
But you're not a therapist, and you are probably sick of playing that role in your relationships anyway.
You don't know how to express yourself without triggering your partner into throwing up their emotional walls and "needing to take some space," give you the silent treatment, or explode and accuse you of trying to "make it all about you."
As a result, you fall into a painful, push-pull pattern in relationships that leaves you with emotional whiplash.
YOU MIGHT STRUGGLE WITH...
✔ Struggle to say or accept the word "no," without fearing total rejection or abandonment...
✔ Have difficulty discerning your feelings and preferences from someone else's...
✔ Find it hard to make decisions on your own, and fall into an endless spiral of "what ifs"...
✔ Slip into people pleasing but then feel resentful about it...
✔ Take on more than the Lion's Share of the responsibility, guilt, and blame in any relationship, because you think if you are responsible for something going wrong, it must be within your power to fix it.
✔ Deep down, you believe you have to earn love and approval, and so, you are drawn to partners that are “challenging” or “edgy,” that make you work for it.
✔ On the other hand, if a partner gives you love and affection too freely, you find them “boring,” or “too nice.”
✔ By being over-helpful, you make yourself indispensable to a partner. You think, “If they need me, they won’t leave me.” But this generosity is a double edged sword. Since you have worked so hard to make your partner need you, you always question whether or not they really love you for you…(and you probably struggle with knowing who the “real” you is, too).
✔ You tend to get lost in the potential of the relationship, rather than the reality of it.
✔ You may also struggle with other forms of addiction, such as drug abuse, alcohol abuse, food addictions, shopping addictions, hoarding, gaming addictions, and so on.
✔ But the hardest thing for the Open Heart, is that they usually attract other partners with insecure attachment styles, and so they fall into what is called "the anxious-avoidant trap"--which is when you find yourself repeatedly attracting emotionally unavailable partners that you just can't seem to get over.
Until now, that only left you with certain options:
1. Read every self-help book under the sun, and spend hours (if not years) talking around in circles in counseling or therapy, spending beaucoup bucks and wondering how you'll know when its working...
2. Manage to accomplish a lot of insight, but still attracting the same kind of partners over and over again, failing to see a real change in your FELT experiences...
3. Accept that this is as good as things are going to get, or...
4. Try something radically different, and think outside the box.
If you're leaning towards #4, my self-directed online course, Anxious Attachment 101: 5 Days to Take the Open Heart From Clingy to Confident, is just the ticket for you!
IN THIS COURSE, YOU WILL LEARN...
✔ The definition of anxious attachment and 4 Ways the anxious partner (an "Open Heart") sabotages their relationships
✔ 4 Essential emotional boundaries that take the Open Heart from confused to clear, about the line between personal boundaries and conditions of love
✔ 2 Types of anxious attachment and how to know which one you have
✔ 3 Strengths of the Open Heart and how to use them to strengthen your relationships
✔ A focus wheel and guided visualization to transform the fundamental fears of the Open Heart
✔ With your bonus course, you will also learn how to quiet the inner critic and reduce anxiety, in love.
THIS COURSE INCLUDES...
✔60-Page downloadable workbook+ activities and assignments
✔13 Downloadable audio lectures
✔17 Experiential lectures, video tutorials and guided meditations
✔Lifetime access to all course content
✔Access to a live, monthly Q&A in the private Facebook group
PreviewVideo_Introducing The MacWilliam Method (TM) (17:05)
PreviewVideo Tutorial_Building an Emotional and Visual Vocabulary (23:12)
StartDownloadable Worksheet_Building an Emotional and Visual Vocabulary
StartAudio 1_Meet Joe: An Open Heart
StartAudio 2_Defining Anxious Attachment
StartAudio 3_ 4 Ways the Open Heart Sabotages Relationships
— Sara Carrozzo, 35
PLUS A BONUS TOOLKIT
THIS TOOLKIT INCLUDES...
In addition to your course materials, you will also receive a bonus toolkit. This toolkit includes 7 Video lectures with guided meditations, movement exercises, and arts-based tutorials. It also includes a 52-Page downloadable workbook with a self assessment, experiential directives, and meditation transcripts.
YOU WILL LEARN...
✔ 5 Steps to Locate Anxiety in the Body
✔ A Mandala to Express 4 Emotional Boundaries
✔3 Steps to Quiet the Inner Critic
✔ 3 Steps to Create Emotional Safety for Anxious Partners
FOR FOLKS THAT HAVE TAKEN THIS COURSE, THE BENEFITS HAVE BEEN PHENOMENAL...
✔ Students reported increased clarity around their own needs and desires, and that their partners were much more receptive to how they expressed them.
✔ Students reported conversations that would have normally triggered an endless battle, or lead to the silent treatment, sparked a heart-warming connection instead.
✔ Students felt as though they'd gained clarity around what makes each partner tick, and experience an increase sense of respect, admiration, and personal agency in the relationship.
✔ Students also experienced increased clarity around what they felt was their "intuition" versus a "triggered" emotional response, which helped them make better discerning decisions about compatible vs incompatible partners.
Experience has taught me that its not complicated to learn how to emotionally connect in an authentic way, when you have a deep understanding of your attachment style. But, it can be difficult without the right tools, and if you have no pre-existing models for how to function in a secure manner.
That's why I created this self-directed, online course, Anxious Attachment 101: 5 Days to Take The Open Heart From Clingy to Confident!
Because it works.
Checkout this testimonial in which expert grief counselor and creative arts therapist, Janeen Mary, reflects on the intersections between grief and anxious attachment, and offers high praise for this course, for anxious individuals.
AND THERE IS NO RISK INVOLVED WITH A 14-DAY MONEY BACK GUARANTEE.
I'm so confident you're going to love Anxious Attachment 101 that I'm offering a 100% money-back guarantee.
If you use this course—and don't completely love it—I will refund every penny of your purchase, no questions asked, within 14-days of your purchase.
Just shoot me an email at [email protected]
Hi, my name is Briana, and I like burritos. Actually, burritos + a good movie = heaven, in my book. I also love romance novels and campy science fiction shows (anyone else a die-hard Supernatural fan?). I also love being my own boss. Doing what I want to do, when I want to do it. And treating work like play.
My passion for working with attachment wounds and personal development stems from a rocky childhood. As a child of divorce, I bounced back and forth between my parents, across state lines.We lived below the poverty line for much of my young life. In my parents, I had an example of hard work but constant struggle.
I became a high achiever to compensate. It served me well professionally, until my struggles with relationships in adulthood tore down everything I had accomplished.
In adulthood, I experienced roller coaster relationships, and ultimately wound up a divorced, single mom. Then, after losing my job due to budget cuts, within a six-month time frame, one after another, both my parents and my brother were diagnosed with serious, chronic illnesses. And the new partner I had fallen madly in love with– the one all the raw parts of myself wanted so desperately to please and keep – couldn’t prioritize me. When he left, my heart broke anew, and I miscarried, without realizing I had been pregnant. I felt my soul was split wide open.
As I came face-to-face with my greatest fears, I knew I had to find the grace on the other side, or collapse into a victimized identity. I decided to dive straight down into my demons, and wrote a book about attachment and grief. Ultimately, I found several other contributors willing to share their stories of grief, and we got it published!
Writing the book emboldened me to shed my shame, and talk about these things in a way I had never thought I would feel safe doing. This led to creating the curriculum for my online courses in personal development, and building an online community for support. Much to my delight, both caught fire, and I have never looked back!
If you’re sick of walking on eggshells or chasing after an unattainable partner in your relationships, just click that link and learn how you can start creating a wildly fulfilling love life, in only 5 days, without having to spend a bunch of money on experts and gurus, or spend years in therapy, with no tangible result.
“I am astounded by Briana’s video series on attachment. This comes from someone (albeit a layman) who has read voraciously on the subject for 7 years, now. There is insight and detailed explanations that simply can’t be found anywhere except in her videos…She should have a cable show. The level of clarity provided is beyond anything I’ve seen.” -Jim Lewandowski
if you're still on the fence, consider...
If you had to pay $200 per hour, 1x per week for a talk therapist, you could expect to spend $2,400 in three months worth of treatment.
For a fraction of what you would spend on 1 hr in counseling or therapy (of which you'd spend most of the time going over the intake forms), this course delivers tangible results, in only 5 lessons worth of fun and easy experiential instruction.
IF YOU ARE DOUBTING THE POSSIBILITIES FOR LOVE...
All the things and the feels are possible for you.
More than that, its even probable, once you you decide and commit to living nothing less than a next-level life, and committing to the processes that will set you on that path.
The good news is, the tools you might need are relatively simple.
And the MOST crucial information that you will need on this journey, already exists INSIDE YOU.
However, learning how to access those parts of yourself can sometimes be a difficult task, when you've been taught your whole life to do the exact opposite.
But that's just conditioning.
And it can be undone.
Just as the brain is blessed with plasticity.
And it can be rewired.
Negative energy and defensive patterning that keep you stuck in a confusion cycle around her personal boundaries CAN be transformed and healed, so that you can RELAX into the brightest luminescence that is your spirit.
It is a process which will allow you to step into a state of being on FIYAH about life, and share that brilliance with a stars-in-their-eyes lover.
If taking a chance on pivoting in that direction isn't worth the cost of this course, I don't know what is!
THE DECISION IS YOURS...
You can continue to do the same thing you've been doing—feeling bulldozed in your relationship, while at the same time walking on eggshells and never feeling like you're needs are being met, increasingly anxious and depressed because of it...
Or you can take a step in the direction of improving your love life, by signing up for Anxious Attachment 101.
And there is no risk involved with a 14-day money-back guarantee!
Frequently Asked Questions
IT'S TIME TO STEP INTO YOUR LOVE LIFE AS A CREATOR OF IT, NOT JUST AS A SURVIVOR.